
I loved being little. Sometimes it feels like young children can do no wrong. Maybe it’s due to children’s genuine innocence, or adult’s lowered expectations, but the fact is – small children have it easier than most. This is, of course, to be expected. Inexperienced and uneducated, their feats are applauded, and their failures overlooked. Anyone old enough to read this knows exactly what I am speaking of, and understands the importance of this developmental period.
Unfortunately, this stage of life is far too short. Success is often forgotten. Mistakes are magnified. Artwork no longer covers the refrigerator. Although we don’t like to admit it, sometimes this can be a difficult transition. What once was applauded is now expected.
This probably sounds familiar. No matter what age you are, you likely feel over-criticized and under-valued. This type of thing happens all the time. It happens when a hard-earned B just wasn’t good enough. Or when a quiet deed goes unnoticed. It happens when you are punished for missing a deadline or being late, in spite of your otherwise great attendance. Maybe you feel like you should be given more allowance, a larger salary, more freedom. We all feel like this at some point in our lives. This struggle affects all of us — adults too. Steven Spielberg’s Super 8 was criticized for not being as good as his classic films such as ET and Jaws. What once was applauded is now expected.
As we mature, we lose the fame and praise that comes with being young and cute. A star swimmer in high-school goes to college and discovers he is the slowest on the team. A great student struggles to stay afloat at the school of their dreams. A deeply involved senior at youth group graduates and becomes “just another member” at church. What follows is nothing short of an identity crisis. If we place all of our value in being a great athlete or being the best student, what happens when we fall short? What happens when our fame and success end? When we place our value solely in our ability to succeed, we will fail.
What if there was someone who doesn’t care if we are famous and successful, someone who forgives us when we slip up, who doesn’t care if we are young and cute, or old and ugly. What if there was someone who always applauds our accomplishments, and values our every action. What if there was someone who loves us just as we are, and by loving us, gives us infinite value that can never be stripped away. That someone is God. Our value is deeply rooted in his love. As we mature and move towards adulthood, everything changes. But God is constant. God’s love stays the same.
- Greg
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